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| From Benghui |
I feel alright today. I was sad yesterday. After Sunday school, a big boy hit me. Mummy came. He told mummy I hit him. Mummy scolded me. It is not true. He is fourteen. I am ten. He is big. I am small. I did not hit him. It was very painful. I kept quiet. If I tell her, mummy will not let me go to church again.
Daddy told me not to cry. Daddy said I am there to learn about God and do good things. I will not stop going to Sunday school. I will stay away from places with no people at the Sunday school.
I have also learned how to read and send emails. Emails are nice. I can read again and again. Auntie Hean is my aunt. She sent me a photograph of Anthony.
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| From Benghui |
This is cousin Anthony. If I am as big as Anthony, nobody will bully me. Through email I am happy. I am not alone. I must be brave.
You should have told mummy the truth. Letting that bully get away isn’t good. He might take it as a licence to bully other children.
Benghui : Mummy will not understand
Wow! Kesian o Benghui! Never mind next time Uncle Tekkaus go there I will help you teach the naughty boy a lesson. Don’t worry, Uncle Tekkaus will play nice. You did a great job Benghui! You are a good boy. Remember, violence cannot solve problem.
Benghui : Uncle Tekkaus. You are joking
By not hitting him back, it shows that you’re more mature than him. You know hitting back won’t solve the problem. Good on you Benghui.
Benghui. I do not know if I did right thing.
Ya.. You should have told your mummy the truth.. Glad you are feeling better today.
Benghui : Mummy will not understand
BH, you’re a good boy, so don’t worry about that bully. God will punish him someday!
hope you will continue to attend Sunday School.
Benghui : I do not want him to be punished. I just want to keep away from him
BengHui don’t cry, from tis u learn a new lesson rite? like wat ur dad say u go sunday school to learn n know more about God. when u c tat 14 yrs old boy next time better don’t get near him ya
Benghui : I will not go near him.
Such wisdom for a 10 year old! Well done to ur parents.
BH, Grow up and become someone amazing one day.
Living your life well is the best revenge.
When the bully sees this, he’ll know he’s defeated.
Benghui : I don’t know
BH, you are a wonderful boy. Your parents will be proud of you that you did not hit him, or you did not hit him back. When mum chastised you, you should have told her the truth. It is good if you can forgive him, as you said you do not wish him to be punished, but you also do not have to let him by so that he will bully others next time. Avoid him if you can, but tell your mum the whole truth. Surely your mum has read your post by now, and she is telling herself you are better than that bully.
BTW, I like your postings. You are a good boy.
Uncle Wong
Benghui : Mummy knows now. Thank you Uncle Wong
telling the truth is the way to go…crying won’t help, you’ll just be bullied more. You may be small but you should know when to protect yourself
Benghui : Mummy always told me to walk away
Wow your cousin looks like a white. Or should I say, he’s really white
Benghui : He is from Auckland
sorry to hear that boy. i hope you can sought it out soon. u are such a thoughtful boy, ur parents must be proud of you.
anyway. dun practice violence my boy!
Benghui : Yessir