My Longkang

I have met some women on death row…. with terminal illness… we talked about the causes… they tell me it is true. They keep a grudge so deep till they forgot what it was… till I mentioned the possibilities of hate and anger deep within….told them to let it all go and release the person and find that peace ,…so they can heal themselves.

It is better to treasure what we have and cherish the space they gave to us in their hearts. It is sad to see them in this state. Really. So sad to see how they put up a brave front when we meet them…. sad and alone.

I blame the husbands and boyfriends. The happiness they let slip through their hands… I even know of some husbands in their 70′s fooling around….how clever they think they can cover their tracks… the secret gets leaked….the poor wife or girfriend will suffer in silence till they get sick.

Is it a coincidence the high incidence of cancers of the pancreas, breasts and womb? These are organs connected to the love senses and emotions. This topic very sensitive to many….I tell you cos I have met many cases like this… curi curi very shiok wan… they both men and women get a kind of thrill if they do it behind.. they think this liaison is worth the risks they take.

Just look to any of your friends wives and see for yourself the glow of their wives… not as bright as a women with confidence of herself… she hides her sorrows. that’s if you know first hand that their husband is cheating on them.

But there is a high number of single women who having no relations with men or boyfriends… they too get the same sicknesses….. their root cause is their mothers….a deep resentment for the expectation placed on them by their mothers….someone they secretly resent if there is unhappiness toward their choice or inability to catch a nice fellow…. like you

If a girl is very secretive or does not like opinions from others and dislikes anyone to give advice…. she is likely to get into trouble with minor lumps in the wrong places….especially if she has an elderly mother to take care off…. if the love and care for her mom is not there… then she is actually doing her ownself harm…. even so if she seems to be loving in the eyes of the world.

Next time if you are tempted to cheat on your loved ones… take heed of the outcome of this scenario of you shuttling to and fro to hospital to be by the bedside of the sweetheart you have destroyed.

Good Friday and Easter Sunday has passed just like that. It made me reflect on a lot of stuff I normally do not give a second thought to. Bear with me as I share with you my inner thoughts.

It’s darn hard to be Catholic….every turn is a challenge… many things undone or did… deep down we know we could have done better. To withhold back love…. to never show its healing balm…. to forfeit its due.. is the greatest sin a heart can do to one another.

The heart is where all the feelings of hate, envy, pride, jealousy, rage, unforgiveness, revenge, thoughtlessness, and all things foul reside deep in its unseen caverns.

it’s an ongoing battle we all know too well that goes on unnoticed behind smiling faces.

The pretense only does the beholder injustice … it eats the heart alive from within…..its fruits are the short lived joy of satisfaction the unfortunate soul receives as her reward…. the cycle is a vicious one … it destroys the soul.

Come Easter… comes a chance to redeem ourselves… to the degree of our willingness to let go of all ….and surrender our broken heart to be made anew by a soothing and refreshing …grace of being forgiven and made whole once again.

Someone who loves us unconditionally, who take away the sins of the world… is our faith in a Redeemer to brush away our imperfections.

But it comes with a cost … for those who have not known our love and kindness.. and have passed on from this world… with no consolation of loving us in return or having known that they were treasures and sparkling jewels who were placed in our path to show us the way and light up our darkest paths on this journey of life.

MR_IDOL_part1 by wagamit3

To all the lovely people and friends on mylongkang..here’s sincerely wishing you and your loved ones a good life together forever..enjoy the companionship each passing moment for you may never know it will ever come again! – Aloha

To the lovers out there…
To the hearts that meet…
To the hearts that seek…
To the searching hearts, whose fragrance so sweet…
Let your hearts beat sweet love to all you reach…
Open your heart with love in return.. to the heart that loves you

How are you all? Had a lovely Valentine?

Romance… that flu you catch… no doctor can cure…a fever so high…a lover’s whisper can soothe its cry…symptoms you see… no remedies you seek…for this sickness you need that keeps your heart in beat…. dedicated to you all

Romeo or not… as long as the old engine can run on idle… don’t disturb the carburetor… its always the ignition coil.. darn thing not firing enough voltage… no words nor angel can save you when it goes full throttle….make sure your tank is full and your tyres are on…no steering wheel needed… your car going nowhere la…. its sitting on bricks… I suppose

The real ladies… to some, their lady got 4 tyres la… they’ll spend more time with her than the one that talks and asks for the world… LOL My carb’s jet a bit blocked, my coil’s leaking, throttle cable’s frayed ( can’t go full throttle ) tank never full, more like shitting bricks but it’s the drive shaft.

Hope you guy readers on mylongkang don’t get taken for a spin by gals … how nice to have auto pilot installed.

Poem posted with permission.

The family is under attack, an unseen player there,… you saw the news yesterday, in China a lorry simply rolled over a toddler and drove off only for the toddler to be rolled over again by another lorry. Passersby just looked and did nothing and carried on business as usual…that is the true picture of society today.
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When it is time, it is time. But we can delay it some what if we wish. It is actually quite simple.
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