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	<title>My Longkang &#187; Parenting</title>
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		<title>Parenting rants and lost youth</title>
		<link>http://www.mylongkang.com/2009/06/24/parenting-rants-and-lost-youth/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Jun 2009 07:10:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you were seventeen again, what would you change if you had a second chance? Everybody deserves a second chance in life but few are given the second chance. Tell me, what would be the first thing you would change if you had this second chance?

It is so easy to think back and wonder what [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Religious values, a mother&#8217;s love, survival, managing our kids well</title>
		<link>http://www.mylongkang.com/2009/03/31/religious-values-a-mothers-love-survival-managing-our-kids-well/</link>
		<comments>http://www.mylongkang.com/2009/03/31/religious-values-a-mothers-love-survival-managing-our-kids-well/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 31 Mar 2009 14:32:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bengbeng</dc:creator>
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In life the rich will always say wealth is immaterial to a good life while the poor slog on day and night a life-time or until the next generation lifts them out of poverty or providence deals them a good hand. But money is almost everything in life. If money weren&#8217;t important, why [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Child labor and frustrated parents</title>
		<link>http://www.mylongkang.com/2009/02/11/child-labor-and-frustrated-parents/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Feb 2009 12:11:00 +0000</pubDate>
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I saw a boy I knew fairly well today. He is fourteen years old. As it was morning, I expected him to be in school but NO. He was busy working as a laborer.

When his mum saw me looking at him, she explained the situation to me. He is not good in his [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>12</slash:comments>
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		<title>Child disappeared for three weeks</title>
		<link>http://www.mylongkang.com/2009/02/10/child-disappeared-for-three-weeks/</link>
		<comments>http://www.mylongkang.com/2009/02/10/child-disappeared-for-three-weeks/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Feb 2009 05:44:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Yesterday was my second day in the office since the 16th of January. Omg how my work has accumulated. My head just goes round and round thinking of all the work I have to do just to catch up.
I was just with a good friend of mine. She was lamenting that her thirteen year old [...]]]></description>
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		<title>No gifts just gold, property or trust funds please and parenting tips</title>
		<link>http://www.mylongkang.com/2008/09/11/no-gifts-just-gold-property-or-trust-funds-please-and-parenting-tips/</link>
		<comments>http://www.mylongkang.com/2008/09/11/no-gifts-just-gold-property-or-trust-funds-please-and-parenting-tips/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Sep 2008 00:51:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bengbeng</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Character: Late 30s, female, mid-level-executive, mother of five. I have known her for more than 10 years.
Cynthia : I read you bought a dress online for Mrs BB. The last time I went to your house, I saw the handbags you bought for her on your travels too. You are too good to her and [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Answered prayers, faith and a child</title>
		<link>http://www.mylongkang.com/2008/06/07/answered-prayers-faith-and-a-child/</link>
		<comments>http://www.mylongkang.com/2008/06/07/answered-prayers-faith-and-a-child/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Jun 2008 15:21:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bengbeng</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I don&#8217;t know when it all began. If I look back, it probably started when a member of the family became sick. Since then, Benghui has begun to pray occasionally : when the need arises. He kept it all from us but occasionally it slips.


Once the lights went out in my neighborhood. He was frightened. [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>2</slash:comments>
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		<title>Parenting and millionaire kids Chinaman Malaysian style</title>
		<link>http://www.mylongkang.com/2008/01/29/parenting-and-millionaire-kids-chinaman-malaysian-style/</link>
		<comments>http://www.mylongkang.com/2008/01/29/parenting-and-millionaire-kids-chinaman-malaysian-style/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Jan 2008 14:13:13 +0000</pubDate>
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Pic courtesy of www.dorsetforyou.com/index.jsp?articleid=369276
Character : Male, millionaire parent
I don&#8217;t believe in indulging my kids. 13 and below I give them Rm30.00 a month. 18 and below Rm50.00. They spend it anyway they like. If they need anything else, they have to come find me.

There is no such nonsense as staying away from the home except [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>9</slash:comments>
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		<title>Delta Mall, Sibu and acrophobia</title>
		<link>http://www.mylongkang.com/2007/12/30/delta-mall-sibu-and-acrophobia/</link>
		<comments>http://www.mylongkang.com/2007/12/30/delta-mall-sibu-and-acrophobia/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 30 Dec 2007 07:23:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bengbeng</dc:creator>
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Being  Sunday, I took my family to the new shopping centre, Delta Mall. The location is strategic for me and there are so many parking lots though when all the outlets are open, that may no longer be the case. With the advent of Sen Q in Sibu, the prices of electrical goods are [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>5</slash:comments>
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		<title>Grandpa wants me to be a doctor</title>
		<link>http://www.mylongkang.com/2007/12/28/grandpa-wants-me-to-be-a-doctor/</link>
		<comments>http://www.mylongkang.com/2007/12/28/grandpa-wants-me-to-be-a-doctor/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Dec 2007 04:06:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bengbeng</dc:creator>
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Everybody wants to be a success. Most people dreamed of being a doctor. It is a glamorous job in the sense that there is glamor in helping people and saving lives. When we miss the boat, we hope our children will become a doctor and when they miss the boat and study IT instead  [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>10</slash:comments>
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		<title>Parenting skill, agonies and faith</title>
		<link>http://www.mylongkang.com/2007/11/29/parenting-skill-agonies-and-faith/</link>
		<comments>http://www.mylongkang.com/2007/11/29/parenting-skill-agonies-and-faith/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Nov 2007 14:38:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Boy burnt at petrol kiosk
I refer to the above link. Muhammad Ikmal Imran Ahmad Nizam suffered 70% burns on his face and body. This is indeed a shocking incident. I have heard of incidents where smoking is involved or mobile phones are involved but this is the first time I have heard of an incident [...]]]></description>
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